Life lessons that the earlier you know, the better

1. I used to feel that those who went to the cafeteria alone or to the library alone were pitiful. Later I realized that they just figured out what they wanted very early.

2. When something makes you feel happy, be careful. For example, staying up late scrolling through mobile phones or sleeping in.

3. Marrying into a well-matched family is really important. If we want to say what is more important, it should be that the ideas are the same!
4. Don’t always focus on the beauty of your face and facial features, body shape and temperament are more important! Learn to exercise and manage your body shape, find makeup and dressing styles that suit you, and protect your skin, which will make you look beautiful.

5. It is important to learn to reconcile with yourself. Don’t just talk about loving yourself. If you don’t really love yourself, don’t expect others to love you.

6. There are many two-faced people in the workplace, so you must learn to distinguish between them. Remember, never expect to find friends at work unless they leave or your departments are far apart.

7. Don’t complain about the material conditions provided by your parents. If you have the ability, try to improve it for your next generation.

8. Don’t be a licker when chasing a girl, and don’t kidnap her materially or mentally to make her feel uncomfortable and stressed. Be sunny, clean, motivated, and be your true self. The most important thing is to make her relaxed and happy when we stay together. Leave the rest to your feelings.

9. Practice your eloquence. Rhetoric is not eloquence. Expressing your thoughts effectively can reduce misunderstandings and magnify achievements. The recommended TED series of books and videos are very different from those popular eloquence books.

10. When getting along with colleagues in the workplace, personal matters are more important than official matters. If you do your business well, others will think you are pretty good; if you help others with your personal affairs, they may thank you for the rest of their lives.

11. The more skills you learn, the less you say to ask for help. Very simple, yet very true.

12. Learn to record your own footprints. When you see good articles and content, like them first and remember to save them or take notes.

13. It is better to refuse seriously than to agree casually. Commitments are limited and energy is tight. You can learn two other skills: casually rejecting annoying people and seriously agreeing to your sweetheart.

14. When dealing with life, don’t be too optimistic, let alone too pessimistic. We all come to the human world to take a trip, look at the scenery, and just do whatever we want. In the end, we can’t take anything with us.

15. If you don’t do something, if you do it once, there will be a second time, and there will be more times.

16. It’s okay to owe money, but don’t owe favors easily. Even if you pay back, you may not be able to explain clearly. The process of repaying a favor can make you feel as sick as eating something if you are not careful.

17. There is no shame in admitting the secular world. Everyone lives in this world and needs to consider daily necessities. On the contrary, people will stay away from people who don't talk about survival but only talk about romance.

18. Good-looking people do have more opportunities. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, wash up frequently, change clothes frequently, and tidy yourself up. No one is willing to observe your interesting soul through your sloppy appearance.

19. Everyone has a temper. It is instinct to express it, but it is skill to suppress it.

20. Don’t take other people’s contributions for granted. No matter what you get, say "thank you" and the giver will be happy. Likewise, if you give me a like, I will be happy for a long time.