FROM FEAR TO FREEDOM: A PERSONAL STORY OF ANXIETY AND RECOVERY

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25 Apr 2023
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Hey, reader. 

Have you ever felt anxious? I’m sure you have. We all do. Anxiety is a normal and natural emotion that helps us to deal with challenges and dangers. It’s like a warning signal that tells us to pay attention and get ready.

But sometimes, anxiety can get out of hand. It can make us feel scared, nervous and worried all the time. It can make us avoid things that we want or need to do. It can make us feel like we’re not good enough or that something bad is going to happen. That’s when anxiety becomes a problem that needs some help.


I know how it feels because I’ve been there. Let me tell you a story. I used to be a very shy and quiet person. I hated talking to people and being in crowds. I always felt like everyone was judging me or laughing at me. I would sweat, shake and blush whenever I had to speak in public. I would make up excuses to skip classes, parties and events. I was missing out on a lot of fun and opportunities.

One day, I had to give a presentation in front of my whole class. It was a nightmare. I couldn’t sleep the night before. I couldn’t eat anything in the morning. I couldn’t focus on anything else. I felt like I was going to die.

When it was my turn to speak, I froze. I couldn’t say a word. My mouth was dry, my heart was pounding and my mind was blank. I felt like everyone was staring at me and thinking how stupid I was. I wanted to run away and hide.


But then, something amazing happened. One of my classmates came up to me and whispered in my ear: “You can do this. You’re awesome. Just breathe and smile.” He gave me a friendly pat on the back and a thumbs up.

That simple gesture changed everything for me. It made me feel less alone and more supported. It made me realize that people were not my enemies, but my allies. It made me calm down and relax.

I took a deep breath and smiled back at him. Then, I started to speak. And guess what? It wasn’t so bad after all. Sure, I made some mistakes and stuttered a few times, but nobody cared. They listened to me and applauded me when I finished. They even asked me some questions and gave me some compliments.


That day, I learned a valuable lesson: anxiety is not something to be ashamed of or afraid of. It’s something to be faced and overcome. And the best way to do that is with some help from others.

If you struggle with anxiety, don’t worry. You’re not alone and you’re not hopeless. There are many ways to cope with anxiety and many people who can help you. You can talk to a therapist, a counselor, a doctor or a friend. You can join a support group, a club or a hobby class. You can learn some relaxation techniques, such as meditation, yoga or breathing exercises.

You can also do some simple things that can make a big difference in your mood and well-being:

  • Get enough sleep
  • Eat healthy food
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Exercise regularly
  • Avoid caffeine, alcohol and drugs
  • Listen to music
  • Read a book
  • Watch a funny movie
  • Play with your pet
  • Do something creative
  • Do something nice for someone else



The most important thing is to be kind to yourself and others. Don’t judge yourself harshly or compare yourself to others. Don’t isolate yourself or hide your feelings. Don’t give up on your dreams or goals.

Instead, celebrate your strengths and achievements. Appreciate your uniqueness and diversity. Reach out for support and offer support to others. Embrace your challenges and opportunities.

Anxiety can be tough, but so can you. You have the power to overcome it and live a happy and fulfilling life.
I hope this helps you in some way. Remember: you’re awesome and you can do this.

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